haberme

(forms a perfect infinitive; me is the object of the following verb)

a ˈb e ɾ m e → haber
haber to exist, to be (there) + me 1st-person singular object
auxiliary Common #6,243
(forms a perfect infinitive; me is the object of the following verb) The pronoun me attaches to haber and refers to the person affected by the following verb.
SP: Podrías haberme llamado antes.
EN: You could have called me earlier.
Conjugation of haber
Indicative present
SingularPlural
First he hemos
Second has —
Third ha han
Indicative imperfect
SingularPlural
First — habíamos
Subjunctive pluperfect
SingularPlural
First — hubiésemos
Second hubieras —
Third — hubieran
Conditional
SingularPlural
First — habríamos
Second habrías —
Third — habrían
Indicative future
SingularPlural
First habré habremos
Second habrás —
Third habrá habrán
Subjunctive
SingularPlural
First — hubiéramos
Third — hubiesen
Indicative pluperfect
SingularPlural
Second habías —
Third — habían
Subjunctive present
SingularPlural
First — hayamos
Second hayas —
Third — hayan

No creo haberme equivocado.

I don't think I made a mistake.

Pero entonces no haberme engañado.

Then you shouldn't have deceived me.

— Gángster Americano (2007)

Podías haberme dejado caminar sola.

You could have let me walk alone.

— Ángeles caídos (1995)

Muchas gracias por haberme advertido.

Thank you so much for warning me.

Te agradezco por haberme atendido.

Thank you for attending to me.

— Suzume (2022)

Tendría que haberme avisado antes.

You should have let me know sooner.

— Taxi (1998)

¡Oh, pareces haberme confundido con alguien a quien le importa un comino!

Oh, you seem to have mistaken me for someone who gives a damn!

¿Recuerdas haberme visto antes?

Do you remember seeing me before?

Siento haberme equivocado de dirección.

I'm sorry I went to the wrong address.

Debo haberme equivocado.

I must have made a mistake.

— La Vida es Bella (1997)

Haberme llamado, mujer.

You should have called me, woman.

— Hable con ella (2002)

Lamento haberme perdido el discurso.

I'm sorry I missed the speech.

Podrías haberme disparado arriba, pero no lo hiciste.

You could have shot me up there, but you didn't.

— Bugonia (2025)

En momentos así, me alegra haberme ordenado sacerdote.

In moments like these, I am glad I was ordained a priest.

— Sed de Sangre (2009)

Siento haberme acostado contigo.

I regret sleeping with you.

— Juno: Crecer, correr y tropezar (2007)

No creo que pudiera haberme detenido.

I don't think I could have stopped myself.

— Drácula (2025)

Podrían haberme operado, si hubiera regresado a casa.

They could have operated on me if I had returned home.

— Avatar (2009)

Podías haberme dicho que ibas a venir.

You could have told me you were coming.

Recuerdo haberme encontrado con él en París.

I remember meeting him in Paris.

No recuerdo haberme levantado en medio de la noche.

I don't remember getting up in the middle of the night.

¡Quería haberme casado con ella!

I wish I’d married her!

Gracias por haberme salvado.

Thank you for saving me.

— La La Land: Una historia de amor (2016)

Tendría que haberme fijado, pero sí.

I should have noticed, but yes.

— Dolor y gloria (2019)

Por supuesto que podía haberme ayudado, pero no lo hizo.

Of course he could have helped me, but he didn't.

Debo haberme olvidado.

I must have forgotten.

Debiste haberme contado antes el problema.

You should have told me about the problem earlier.

Le agradecí por haberme ayudado.

I thanked him for helping me.

Debes haberme confundido con alguien más.

You must have mistaken me for someone else.

Lamento haberme tardado tanto en volver.

I'm sorry it took me so long to come back.

— Equipo Demolición (2026)

Debe haberme traído suerte.

It must have brought me luck.

— El gran diluvio (2025)

Deberían haberme avisado.

They should have let me know.

— Toni Erdmann (2016)

Siento haberme comido su cena.

I'm sorry I ate your dinner.

— Audición (2000)

Tú debiste de haberme contado la verdad.

You should have told me the truth.

No pueden haberme oído.

They can't have heard me.

— La historia sin fin (1984)

Creía haberme vuelto inmortal.

I thought I had become immortal.

Los dioses deberían haberme consultado antes de crear nada.

The gods should have consulted me before creating anything.

— Ágora: La caída del imperio romano (2009)

Podías haberme llamado.

You could have called me.

— La vida de Adèle (2013)

Hasta tengo la impresión de haberme casado aquí.

I even feel like I got married here.

— Parásitos (2019)

Debo de haberme expresado mal.

I must have expressed myself poorly.

Recuerdo haberme preguntado por qué continuaba sonriendo.

I remember wondering why she kept smiling.

— Rebeca (1940)

No tendrías que haberme votado.

You shouldn't have voted for me.

Lamenté profundamente haberme quedado hasta tarde cuando amaneció.

I deeply regretted staying up late when dawn broke.

Eres muy amable por haberme mostrado el camino.

You are very kind for showing me the way.

No debiste haberme abandonado.

You shouldn't have abandoned me.

Podías haberme ayudado a convencerlo.

You could have helped me convince him.

Tendría que haberme matado.

He should have killed me.

— La Caída (2004)

Debo haberme quedado dormida.

I must have fallen asleep.

— Mujeres al borde de un ataque de nervios (1988)

Debiste haberme escuchado.

You should have listened to me.

Y gracias por haberme ayudado.

And thank you for helping me.

— Paris, je t'aime (2006)

Deben de haberme seguido.

They must have followed me.

— Roma città aperta (1945)

Qué suerte he tenido de haberme sentado aquí.

How lucky I was to have sat here.

Siento haberme dormido.

I'm sorry I fell asleep.

— Kiki: Entregas a Domicilio (1989)

Debo haberme equivocado en algún desvío.

I must have made a mistake at some turn.

— स्वदेस (2004)

Perdón, Julio por haberme cogido a tu vieja la Ceci, ¿ya güey?

Sorry, Julio, for banging your old lady Ceci—are we good now, man?

— Y tu mamá también (2001)

Te agradezco mucho por haberme ayudado.

I really appreciate you helping me.

— Suzume (2022)

Lamento haberme enojado antes.

I regret getting angry earlier.

— ¿Está funcionando esto? (2025)

Ni siquiera cuando fui bastante directa dieron señales de haberme oído.

Even when I was pretty direct, they didn’t give any sign that they’d heard me.

No, podías haberme obedecido.

No, you could have obeyed me.

— El laberinto del fauno (2006)

Lo mejor que pudo haberme pasado, doctor.

The best thing that could have happened to me, doctor.

— Carandiru (2003)

Podrías haberme dicho que eras famoso.

You could have told me you were famous.

— Familia en renta (2025)

¡Es ridículo haberme dormido!

It's ridiculous that I fell asleep!

— El Paciente Inglés (1996)

Debí haber escuchado a mi padre y no haberme ido contigo hace tantos años.

I should have listened to my father and not left with you so many years ago.

— Todo en Todas Partes al Mismo Tiempo (2022)

Fue lo mejor que pudo haberme pasado.

It was the best thing that could have happened to me.

Debo de haberme quedado dormido.

I must have fallen asleep.

Puede haberme mentido.

He may have lied to me.

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