to have them
En realidad, no necesitaba tenerlas afuera.
Actually, I didn’t need to have them out.
La Iglesia sí, sí debe tenerlas, está destinada a no morir.
The Church, yes, it must have them; it is destined not to die.
— El Gatopardo (1963)
Querer cosas nos hace más felices que realmente tenerlas.
Wanting things makes us happier than actually having them.