to ask me for it
Thank you for asking me.
I'm starting to wonder.
Pourquoi n’es-tu pas venue me le demander plus tôt ?
Why didn't you come and ask me about it sooner?
Il a eu le culot de prendre ma voiture sans me le demander.
He had the nerve to take my car without asking me.
Je sais que tu vas me le demander, mais j'ignore qui m'a jeté un sort.
I know you’re going to ask me, but I have no idea who put a spell on me.
— Harry Potter et le Prince de sang-mêlé (2009)
Elle prit mon parapluie sans même me le demander.
She took my umbrella without even asking me.