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Purtroppo, il congegno che la tiene in vita la sta anche uccidendo.
Unfortunately, the device keeping her alive is also killing her.
— Iron Man 2 (2010)
Lui non la sta veramente ascoltando.
He isn't really listening to her.
No one is blaming her.
Non la sta spingendo troppo lontano?
Isn't he pushing her too far?
Something is bothering her.