you spoke to him
Tu lui as parlé quand pour la dernière fois ?
When did you last speak to him?
Did you talk to him about that?
Did you tell him about us?
Did you speak to him?
Mais maintenant que tu lui as parlé, tu te rends compte que tout va bien ?
But now that you've spoken to him, do you realize that everything is alright?
— Once Upon a Time... in Hollywood (2019)
Have you spoken to him/her recently?