に当たる

hit; strike, take one’s anger or frustration out on someone

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phrase Common #7,048
hit; strike Used when an object or projectile physically collides with or hits something.
JA: 私は屋根に当たる雨の音が好きだ。
EN: I like the sound of rain hitting the roof.

私は屋根に当たる雨の音が好きだ。

I like the sound of rain hitting the roof.

警官に当たるか?

Will it hit the police officer?

— エリート・スクワッド (2007)

私たちは弾に当たるのが怖かったので、階下に走って降りていったの。

We were afraid of getting hit by bullets, so we ran downstairs.

phrase Rare #45,338
take one’s anger or frustration out on someone Used when someone directs their anger or frustration at another person.
JA: 僕に当たるなよ。
EN: Don’t take it out on me.

君に当たるつもりはなかったんだ。

I didn't mean to take it out on you.

いつも俺に当たるんだ

You always take it out on me.

— ニュー・シネマ・パラダイス (1988)

私に当たるな

Don't take it out on me.

— 自転車泥棒 (1948)

僕に当たるなよ

Don't take it out on me.

— JUNO/ジュノ (2007)