と言ったのに

even though [someone] said

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phrase Uncommon #16,616
even though [someone] said Expresses frustration or surprise that something happened contrary to what someone said. The quoted statement comes before と言ったのに.
JA: 来ないと言ったのに、彼はまた来た。
EN: Even though he said he wouldn’t come, he came again.

来たら死ぬから来るなと言ったのにに会うためにこうするしかないんだ

I told you not to come because you’d die if you did, but this is the only way I can see you.

— 別れる決心 (2022)

母親は窓を開けないようにと言ったのにその少年は窓を開けた

Even though his mother told him not to open the window, the boy opened it.

行くなと言ったのに私を待てだが彼女はこれが最後だからと約束したんだ

I told her not to go and to wait for me, but she promised that this would be the last time.

— ブレット・トレイン (2022)

一緒に食事をと言ったのに

Even though I said we should have a meal together...

— 花様年華 (2000)

捨てろと言ったのに

I told you to throw it away!

— 別れる決心 (2022)

行けと言ったのになぜ行かない

I told you to go, so why aren't you going?

— バジュランギおじさんと、小さな迷子 (2015)

お母さんがだめだと言ったのにその男の子は窓を開けた

Even though his mother told him not to, the boy opened the window.