こなければ

if ... do not come, unless ... come

→ 来る
come + なけれ Negative conditional + Conditional (if/when)
auxiliary · conditional Rare #42,120
if ... do not come, unless ... come
JA: 彼がこなければ、会議を始めます。
EN: If he doesn't come, we'll start the meeting.
Conjugation of 来る

あんたなんか生まれてこなければよかったのよ

It would have been better if you had never been born!

君は遅くとも日曜日には戻ってこなければならない

You must be back by Sunday at the latest.

ここに戻ってこなければ

If I hadn't come back here...

— レベッカ (1940)