you don't know what it's like
Mamá, tú no sabes lo que es haber matado a tu padre.
Mom, you don’t know what it’s like to have killed your father.
— Volver (2006)
Tú no sabes lo que es perder a tu familia entera en una guerra.
You don't know what it's like to lose your entire family in a war.
Tú no sabes lo que es ser pobre.
You don't know what it's like to be poor.