you don't know what it's like
Tú no sabes lo que es ser pobre.
You don't know what it's like to be poor.
Mamá, tú no sabes lo que es haber matado a tu padre.
Mom, you don’t know what it’s like to have killed your father.
— Volver (2006)
Tú no sabes lo que es eso, ¿verdad?
You don't know what that is, do you?
— Los cuatrocientos golpes (1959)
Tú no sabes lo que es perder a tu familia entera en una guerra.
You don't know what it's like to lose your entire family in a war.