non me l’hai

you didn’t tell me

→ non
phrase Common #5,528
you didn’t tell me Usually followed by a past participle, especially detto: non me l’hai detto means “you didn’t tell me.” L’ combines lo (“it”) with hai (“you have”), and me means “to me.”
IT: Non me l’hai detto che partivi!
EN: You didn’t tell me you were leaving!

Non me l’hai mai chiesto.

You never asked me.

— L'agente segreto (2025)

Perché non me l’hai mostrata tu?

Why didn't you show it to me?

— Hamnet - Nel nome del figlio (2025)

Non me l’hai chiesto.

You didn't ask me.

— I Swear (2025)

Perché non me l’hai detto?

Why didn't you tell me?

— Il mio amico Ivan Lapshin (1985)

Non me l’hai mai detto.

You never told me.

— L'agente segreto (2025)