не хотел тебя обидеть

didn't mean to offend you

→ не
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didn't mean to offend you Used to explain that you did not intend to hurt someone's feelings. хотел is masculine; a woman would say не хотела.
RU: Я не хотел тебя обидеть, просто сказал правду.
EN: I didn't mean to offend you; I was just telling the truth.

Я уверен, что Том не хотел тебя обидеть.

I'm sure Tom didn't mean to hurt your feelings.

Не хотел тебя обидеть.

I didn't mean to offend you.

— Славные парни (1990)

Я не хотел тебя обидеть.

I did not mean that.

— Всё везде и сразу (2022)

Я совсем не хотел тебя обидеть.

I didn't mean to offend you at all.