自分の思いどおりに

as one wishes

→ 自分
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as one wishes Means doing something according to one's own wishes or exactly as one wants. 自分 refers to the subject of the sentence, so it can mean "as I want," "as you want," or "as he or she wants," depending on context.
JA: 彼女は自分の思いどおりに仕事を進めた。
EN: She carried out the work exactly as she wanted.

彼は何事においても自分の思いどおりにしようとする

He always tries to get his own way in everything.

リンダは何でも自分の思いどおりにしようとする

Linda tries to get everything her own way.